Introducing Erotic Energy Mapping
An Offering for Venus Retrograde and Beyond
During the last few months, as I worked on the manuscript for my book SEX AND YOUR STARS: A SEXOLOGIST’S GUIDE TO THE EROTIC ENERGY OF THE ZODIAC (coming out in the summer of 2024 from Sounds True), I refined a few techniques that combine my training in astrology and clinical sexology. Then the generosity and interiority of Venus Retrograde took this immersion to the next level, and here I am, offering this work to you upon her emergence as a morning star in the last weeks before she stations direct.
Welcome to my signature counseling session: a unique hybrid of sexology and astrology that I am calling Erotic Energy Mapping.
Many of my clients and readers struggle with low/no libido, arousal issues, body image distress and social anxiety, all mixed with ongoing skin hunger. Still others seek enhanced pleasure. Yet we are NOT the same as we once were. The trauma of what we’ve been through in the last few years is locked in our bodies, and even though pleasure can heal this, it might feel impossible to even connect to that restorative pleasure in the first place. We can use our natal chart to unlock authentic sensual/sexual embodiment. I don’t want to call it a “hack” but it is certainly a way into the erotic landscape of our bodies that we may not have thought about before.
Single and partnered people need a better understanding of their sexual selves at this fraught moment. The pandemic, plus life in what feels like an ongoing cycle of climate grief/anxiety and creeping fascism, has indeed created blocks/barriers to fulfilling that deepest, highest level of sustainable, life-affirming pleasure that all humans deserve. Together, we can fix this, and I give you this offering in service to that goal.
If you’re interested in this work, as always, I’m sensitive to your financial situation, so if you require a sliding scale, just reach out. Or if you’re able, you can pay 250 USD directly to my Paypal or Venmo and email me to set up the appointment if you can’t find anything on my calendar.
For these hour-long sessions, I’ll ask clients to fill out a sexual history intake form that includes their birth data. This history will inform my chart interpretation, and we’ll loop back and forth between your lived experiences and current concerns and the reality of your natal chart and transits. We’ll explore the dynamics of the Sun sign/placement and aspects, Venus/Mars/Lilith/Pluto placement by sign, house and aspects, and conditions and placements in the 5th house (pleasure) and 8th house (intimacy/trust/abuse history). There will be the opportunity to extend this session into a series of astro-sex coaching sessions if the issues that come up call for further exploration.
My clinical sexology practice is a trauma-informed, client-centered, shame-free environment where we get to the root of your sex and relationship concerns. Pleasure is at the center of our process, and my aim is to help you attain the deepest level of self-love, a sustainable capacity for intimacy, a healthy relationship with your body and ultimate solo pleasure. I will hold space for whatever you bring to our sessions, helping to restore your courage, playfulness, and immense orgasmic potential. This is where the healing lives. My practice is intersectional, LGBTQ-affirming, decolonizing, and welcoming to disabled people. People of all ages are welcome, from Gen Z to senior citizens. We are all beautiful and our pleasure matters, especially those who’ve experienced discrimination, othering, and marginalization.
I am trained in Dr. Patti Britton’s MEBES model, centered on mind, emotions, body, energy and spirit. This works fluidly with my 20-year career as a professional counseling astrologer. Uncovering erotic energy is at the root of this process, and although I also work as a traditional clinical sexologist, I find that by blending these two modalities in this signature session, we can dive even deeper into your desires, tendencies, potentials, and using transits, learn more about what might be affecting your sex life right now and in the future.
Once again, you can pay 250 USD directly to my Paypal or Venmo and email me to set up the appointment, or check out the openings on my schedule, and book directly.
With pleasure,
Stefanie